About me
I am a college professor and design professional. I’ve lived in this house for twenty years – converting it from a former public library into a custom, modern home has been a labor of love. I work from home several days a week. Recently divorced, two adult sons, motorcycle rider, queer, progressive, feminist, socially active, out late some nights, but live pretty quietly when home. One small dog — Lulu — who you’ll fall in love with.
I’m emotionally mature, communicative, and I value clear boundaries and mutual respect. I don’t expect us to be best friends (unless that happens naturally), but I’m looking for someone who feels at ease in a non-judgmental, authenticity-centered space.
It is vitally important to me that the person I share my living space with is compatible with, and respectful of, my lifestyle. I'm a pan/queer person living a full, joyful life, and practicing ethical non-monogamy with a variety of friends. I have friends over a few times a week. My housemate has to be cool with that, and is welcome to entertain friends as well.
I’m also a naturist — non-sexual, body-positive nudity is a normal part of life in this home, including in common areas and the backyard. Even though this freedom is important to me, if this is a problem it's negotiable if everything else seems to be great.
In conclusion, you might be a good fit if you...
• Are LGBTQ+ affirming and comfortable around diverse gender/orientation expressions
• Respect privacy and boundaries
• Accepting of non-traditional relationship structures
• Are OK with nudity in shared spaces
• Communicate clearly and handle shared living respectfully
• Are clean and tidy
• Are OK with four twenty use
